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Before the Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set, I had never tried dilators before. And you already know, I’m new(er) to glass toys!

Now, let’s go back in time for a minute. A few years ago, Dr. Peter Pacik, a successful plastic surgeon, was approached by a patient who wanted him to use Botox to treat her vaginismus.

Now, before we go any further, let’s define a couple of things.

Vaginismus: when the muscles of a woman’s vagina squeeze or spasm when something is entering it, like a tampon or a penis. And, like most diagnoses, it can range from mildly uncomfortable to quite painful.

While doctors still argue that some cases start with a psychological issue and become physical, and others argue the opposite, one thing they can agree on is that dilators, sex therapy, and sometimes physical therapy are the best treatments.

So, these dilators were a collaboration between a glass sex toy company that I have come to LOVE (Crystal Delights) and Dr. Pacik!

If you want to see the IG video review, check it out here.

(In the video, I use Royal’s body wipes and water-based lubricant.)

Also, because of their uses, dilators need to be comfortable, safe, and able to be worn for long periods of time in any position while doing almost any activity. Therefore, these dilators are designed to be worn for a long time, for lasting results. The glass is designed to be worn comfortably for extended periods and has a folded lip rim, so it’s comfy against the vulva externally.

Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set

Let’s talk about the specs of the Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set:

  • Made of Hardened Borosilicate Glass
    • Borosilicate glass is durable, natural, non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easily sterilized.
  • The set comes with three dilators: sizes 4, 5, + 6
    • Weight / Length / Width
      • #4: 1.2 oz // 3.5″ // 1″
      • #5: 1.7 oz // 3.5″ // 1.25″
      • #6: 2.3 oz // 3.5″ // 1.5″
  • Sizes 3 (xs) – 8 (xxl) available
  • Handmade in the USA
  • They are all no more than 3.5″ long, which is just under the average length of a vagin.a

How to Use the Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set

Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set

While these dilators can be used as a treatment for vaginismus, they can also be incredibly hot and sexy and can even be used in the anus! The view of this inside your partner’s body is wildly sexy.

Who May Enjoy This Toy, Sensations of Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set

While we’ve talked about glass sex toys before, this is a one-of-a-kind type of product. The person who is going to enjoy this both wants great sex and is aware of the value of a well-made and well-designed product.

If you have vaginismus, want to stretch your muscles vaginally or anally, or want an epic view of your partner during sex, these are definitely for you.

Pros & Cons of the Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set

Pros

  • Quality: The glass and design— it’s all top-notch.
  • Versatility: Not only are these dilators one of the most successful tools out there to treat Vaginismus, but they can also be used during sexual reassignment, for anal stretching, and even for sex play.
  • Value: I don’t think this tool/toy is overpriced at all. Help in treating vaginismus for $170? IN.
  • Comes with a storage bag

Cons

  • Literally none.

Overall Rating

In summary, dilators come in many materials, designs, and shapes, and serve many different purposes. This set, a collaboration from Crystal Delights and Dr. Pacik, is incredible. It can help treat vaginismus, and it can be a sex toy? I’m in.

Overall: 5/5 stars

Where You Can Purchase the Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set

You can get your own dilators or the whole Crystal Delights Pacik Dilator 3 Set here, and if you use the code RACH15, you can get 15% off any products:

crystal delights Pacik Dilator

If you want more writing like this, you can browse my posts on mental health and sex.

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